Together for 3 years. My family is accepting and welcoming. Her family, not welcomed. I'm not sure how to go about this. I want to spend Holidays together, regardless of where we go, I want to spend them with her. She wants to be with her family, that doesn't accept her for being gay but loves everything else about her. I'm not welcomed to be around. I don't want to be selfish, I know this is a terrible position for her. I don't even know how to go about this anymore. I don't want to spend Holidays without her, let alone, alone. We are both transplants, neither of us live close to our family. She's able to take the full week off during Holidays, I only get the actual day off. Advice.