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New member
Oct 26, 2021
Hi. I don’t know if this is the right place. But I really need advice.

I am a lesbian and I have a crush on a friend of mine. I asked her if she was attracted to me and she said no. I asked her in a way that I did not outright say my feelings, but I feel like she has to be suspicious.

Now I have been acting off around her…only because I need some time for those feelings to heal, you know? But she clearly knows something is off.

I know she doesn’t feel the same way of course….but, should I just be honest with her? So that she at leasr knows why I’m acting so weird? I don’t want our FRIENDSHIP to be destroyed. I’m just at a loss.


New member
Oct 24, 2021
Hey there,

This could be very subjective to each individual. Some people would like to know the truth and some would rather not.

I guess the question always is, what would you like if the roles were reversed? Would you like the truth and if so, right away? Or would you the other person would rather wait it out?

Whatever you choose, here's hoping you find peace :)


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