Is it okay to feel fed up from heterosexuality?

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Cutesenpaii

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Heya everyone, my name is Dario(Gay) and I feel a bit guilty for asking this, but is it okay to feel fed up with heterosexuality? It is normal to see it everywhere, which is fine, but lately, it just bothers me in a way that I don't understand myself.
 

Shyguy39

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To be honest I work with alot of heterosexuals and they talk to me.
Differently to others and I'm fed up of them making me not fit in.
Even tho I'm gay and they treat me differently I'm fed up with it also
 
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Gigi

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Sometimes I’m fed up too. At the end of work a colleague of mine always reminded me to not forget to fuck a chick... I’m not out at work, so I reacted indifferently; annoyed about him and about myself. Those are the moments when I’m not a happy camper.

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Isbjorn

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I am not out at work. I was in a conversation with my boss, he is a manager and I am supervisor. We were talking about an HR issue regarding a gender statement. It was a good conversation and there was nothing really inappropriate to it, but I did feel offended due to a statement that he said. There was nothing horribly wrong with what he said as it was a feeling on his part. I like him because he supports all his employees regardless of gender or orientation, but he said he will go to bat for anyone of his people on LGBT issues, but personally he finds the acts gross. That kind of hurt because it is a personal thing for me, though he does not know it. I also know that like I am allowed to have my own desires and likes, so it he! Quite a conundrum. I guess what I am saying is that I can see where you are coming from, but also that heterosexuality is not the only thing I get annoyed and tired of whilst dealing with people.
 
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Gigi

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It’s the little things. I didn’t wear the collar you can see the picture of, only a pair of socks in this colour and I got a lot of remarks about and some not very friendly. You have the right to be yourself, but the consequences of being not accepted, describing it in a friendly manner, are included if you’re not acting straight.

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kw15

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Sometimes I’m fed up too. At the end of work a colleague of mine always reminded me to not forget to fuck a chick... I’m not out at work, so I reacted indifferently; annoyed about him and about myself. Those are the moments when I’m not a happy camper.

Gigi
I mean, that's completely inappropriate. I hear that you're not out to everyone but have you told this person that you don't appreciate those types of comments? I'd be livid if someone tried to pull that on me.
 

Gigi

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I shrugged it off because I didn’t want an escalation. He is a hot tempered Arab, having a vocal crosstalk with him would only entertain the office but lead to nothing. During the years I learned to not show my being livid.

Gigi
 

kw15

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Sometimes I’m fed up too. At the end of work a colleague of mine always reminded me to not forget to fuck a chick... I’m not out at work, so I reacted indifferently; annoyed about him and about myself. Those are the moments when I’m not a happy camper.

Gigi
I mean, that's completely inappropriate. I hear that you're not out to everyone but have you told this person that you don't appreciate those types of comments? I'd be livid if someone tried to pull that on me
I shrugged it off because I didn’t want an escalation. He is a hot tempered Arab, having a vocal crosstalk with him would only entertain the office but lead to nothing. During the years I learned to not show my being livid.

Gigi
I get it, I really do. I probably would've handled it the same way if in your shoes. Hopefully he'll have some coming to Jesus moment and realize that type of behavior is unacceptable.
 
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