Hi all, I'm Lind, and I want to find an identity...

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Nov 25, 2021
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((First, I'm literally incapable of succinct messages unless I spend half an hour editing.
Which I may do more one day, but for now skipping ahead is encouraged if you like!))

To be clear, as my bio will elaborate I already understand my gender identity and orientation more then enough that it isn't an issue for the time being;
Because of that gender identity by chance being a lack of form in the first place it could contribute, but that isn't the reason I came here.

The reason is the more general definition of 'identity'- that's what I don't have.
I have goals and wants, to be sure, but they're general.
'Help people'. 'Connect the currently separated fields of human and animal experiences'....
'Don't starve'.

But none of those have a preference I can truly commit to. For most of life until very recently, I was locked into introspection to solve a deppresion.
I figured "ppl don't understand why I can't solve this... so I need to explain better."
Finally, in part through chance, I've succeeded- I have good doctors now. I'll be making rapid progress before long I imagine, although it will take decades to heal.
But because of all that, my mind is a blank slate to a degree. I haven't had anywhere near enough significant experiences or accomplishments that have spoken to me. So I have no action I can prefer, and become deadlocked-

Even a fork in the road can be difficult to choose, if a being were popped into existence there with no past experience to influence.

Hence, I now need socialization (or a 1/100000 chance miracle event that gives me specific motivation)
But as an LGBT+ person, and one as upset with even the centrists of the world as I am, just any social group isn't worth the risk to join. The chances it would stress me out are too high if they aren't even lgbt- focused.

I come here in the hopes this place helps with that.
Helps me find people- or even one person- who can focus my path better to reach my goal.
I appreciate any help given, thanks to anyone who reads even just this one sentence! ; p
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